our wedding: the programs
Our ceremony programs were simple (in theory) so I printed, folded and assembled them myself. I originally wanted to sew the edge like the inspiration image below, but my machine wasn’t cooperating and it ended up just looking sloppy. Included in the ceremony (and going with the “key theme”), Ryan’s best friend read a sweet reading called “The key to love”.
“The key to love is understanding…
the ability to comprehend not only the spoken word,
but those unspoken gestures, the little things that say so much by themselves.
The key to love is forgiveness…
to accept each other’s faults and pardon mistakes,
without forgetting, but with remembering what you learn from them.
The key to love is sharing…
facing your good fortunes as well as the bad, together, both conquering problems,
forever searching for ways to intensify your happiness.
The key to love is giving…
without thought of return, but with the hope of just a simple smile,
and by giving in but never giving up.
The key to love is respect…
realizing that you are two separate people, with different ideas;
that you don’t belong to each other,
that you belong with each other, and share a mutual bond.
The key to love is inside us all…
It takes time and patience to unlock all the ingredients
that will take you to its threshold,
it is the continual learning process that demands a lot of work,
but the rewards are more than worth the effort –
and that is the key to love.”
I have the best friends ever. One night, when Ryan was at his bachelor party, we shared a few bottles of wine and they helped me cut every single paper cone out. They never did crafty things with me before and I think my OCD and tendency to over think small details scared them. Luckily they showed up on the wedding day, and love me regardless of my neurosis.
(all above photos via John DiFiora Photography.)
The program inspiration:
(inspiration photo sources unknown.)